Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Amazing women

Have you ever met a woman that truly takes your breath away? I know I have. I won't mention any names because she knows who she is. When you talk to that one person, who has truly saved your life, you can't help but feel good about yourself. You can't stop from wanting to share everything with her. You can't stop from thinking about her. You can't help but look up to the sky and ask "God, is this the woman you intended me to be with?" You may start out as friends, and grow closer and closer over time. The longer you know one another, the deeper your feelings for that person get. Sometimes it becomes harder to tell that one person how you truly feel about them. If I can tell you anything it is this: "Don't let this person have any doubt, don't make them wonder how you truly feel about them." In one of Garth Brook's songs called If Tomorrow Never Comes he sings...

"A thought crosses my mind. If I never wake up in the morning. Would she ever doubt the way I feel about her in my heart. If tomorrow never comes, will she know how much I loved her? Did I try in every way to show her every day, that shes my only one. And if my time on earth were through, and she must face this world without me. Is the love I gave her in the past gonna be enough to last, If tomorrow never comes."

If you don't listen to anything else I have to say, that is fine. But PLEASE.. and I do mean PLEASE listen to this. Make sure you show her how much she really means to you. Make sure you show her daily that she is your world, and that you would do anything for her. Chris Young says in his song Man I Wanna Be:

" I wanna be a stay man. I wanna be a great man. I wanna be the kinda man that she sees in her dreams. God, I wanna be your man, and I wanna be her man. God I only hope she still believes in the man I wanna be."

Be that man. You may not be the man she has always dreamed of, but do your best to be the man that makes all of her dreams come true. I promise this here is the last song I quote, however I feel this song rings true to making the best of your relationship with that one special woman in your life. In the song Love Like Crazy by Lee Brice he sings:

"Be a best friend, tell the truth, and over use "I Love You." Go to work, do your best, and don't outsmart your common sence. Never let your prayin knees get lazy, and LOVE LIKE CRAZY"

If you read nothing else on this page please remember, that no matter how hard times may get, how difficult the road my become, that she said "YES" for a reason. Don't ever give her any reason to doubt the love you have for her.


Monday, September 27, 2010

True Friends

Ok, If you are reading this, it is time for me to be serious and post a blog about something that truly effects me. I am writing this blog about the bonds of friendship you may share with those you consider really close to you.

Think really hard about this: Who are the people you consider to TRULY be your friends? I'm not talking about the kind of friend you say hello to when you see them out in public. I mean the people you consider family. The friends that are so dear to you that you would gladly give the shirt off of your back for them. I have been blessed to have a few of these friends in my life. I honestly owe alot to all of them. I would like to mention just a few of these people and how they have made me who I am today.

This first letter is to my best friend Tyler. He has played a huge role in making me who I am today.

Dear Tyler,

 Well I guess the main thing i want to say to you is this. Keep on keeping on. You are like the brother I never had. Your friendship means more to me than you could ever imagine. You and Ashley are a daily reminder of why I am the way I am. You never let anyone come between either of you. You once told me that in a relationship "If someone can't accept you for who you are and who you are with, then they really don't matter." It is because of you, and the support that you give me, that I have the desire to do anything I possibly can to better my life.

Secondly, to Mr. Matt. Life may have thrown you a fast ball, but you never let that get you down. The fact that you are in a wheelchair doesn't mean you can't live life to the fullest. Don't ever let anyone tell you that they are better than you. You have to be one of the strongest people I have ever had the opportunity to get to know.

Dear Matt,

It's not every day that you find a friend as nice as you are. I know we have never even seen one another in person, but I want you to know that I do consider you a true friend. You once told me to never listen to other people's criticism. You said to me: "Don't let other people tell you what you can't do. Don't let their criticism get you down" I truly want to thank you for being a true friend to me.

Dear Lucas,

What can I say. You are like my brother....from another mother. I honestly admire the way you don't let others really get to you. I have seen multiple times where someone is trying to upset you, and you just let it go. I really wish I could be more like you in that aspect. Hey, we all have different aspects of our personality that are different. That, however, is one aspect I would like to change about myself. Because of you and the talks we have had, you make me want to be more like you. You told me that no matter what happens, "Just be yourself. Don't ever try to be someone you aren't." I think about that EVERY day. All you have to do is just be yourself, and if people don't like it, then they arent someone you need as a friend.

For you Brooke, all I can say is thank you. You have been there for me through alot of different things. I truly value your friendship, and I am proud to call you my sister.

Dear Brooke,

I know I talk to you daily, but I never get tired of hearing your voice. When I really need someone to talk to, you always seem to be there. Your friendship means more to me than you can possibly imagine. It was you who told me to never give up on my dreams. If I have a dream, I should go after it. Because of the support you give me, I truly want to do everything I possibly can to make my life better. I want to persue all of my dreams, and I know that in doing so, you will be there for me, making sure I don't let the little things bother me. Making sure I don't give up on a dream. You truly are family to me, and I thank God daily that I got the chance to get to know you.

All I am saying is this. If you know of someone that you truly consider a friend. Make sure they know exactly what they mean to you. If you should leave this earth, don't ever leave any doubt in their mind. Don't even give them a sliver of a reason to doubt your friendship. Make sure they always know exactly what they mean to you. Show them as often as you can, that no matter what happens, you will be there for them. That your friendship mean absolutely everything to you.

I would like to thank you all for reading this. This is something I have been wanting to say for a few days now.

I just want you all to remember this: "A friend is one who comes in, when the whole world has gone out"


I just want to say I've been thinking about my life, (its been scary) and I have had many opportunities that came before me. There are a few I havent taken and I wonder what my life would be if I would have taken them. Don't get me wrong, I know everything happens for a reason, but have you ever stopped to think about how your life would be different if you did something you had the chance to but didnt do?

I guess what I'm tryin to say is" If you have a chance to do something, or the opportunity to do something, by all means take it. In the song Loose Yourself but Eminem, he says-

"You only get one shot, dont miss your chance to go, cause opportunity rolls once in a live time."

This couldnt be more true. If you dont take an opportunity you have been given, it will never come around agian, so take it while you have the chance.

I could get into the whole spill about me growing up and what happened to me while I was growing up, but I dont want to bore everyone that reads this. With all that has happened in my life, if I knew then, where me as a person stands in life, there are a few opportunities that I would have taken.

Well thats enough for now. If you made it this far, then I guess you actually read all of one of my blogs.

Beer VS. Pussy

Beer VS Pussy ... Who Will Win

1. Beer is always wet. Pussy needs a little work. - One point to BEER

2. Warm beer tastes awful. - One point to Pussy

3. A really cold beer is satisfying. - One point to BEER

4. If after taking a swig of your favorite beer you find a hair between your teeth, you may vomit. - One point to Pussy

5. Ten beers in one night and you can't drive home. Ten Pussies in one night and you don't want to drive anywhere. - One point to Pussy

6. If you have a lot of beer in a public place, your reputation may suffer. If you eat any Pussy in public, you become a legend. - One point to Pussy

7. If a cop stops you and you smell of beer you may get arrested. If you smell of Pussy he may buy you a beer. - One point to Pussy

8. You normally don't find old beer. - One point to BEER

9. Too much beer and! you'll think you see flying saucers. Too much Pussy and you'll think you've seen God. - One point to PUSSY

10. In most countries there's a tax on beer. - One point to PUSSY

11. If you have another beer the first one never gets pissed off - One point to BEER

12. You can always be sure if you're the first one to open a bottle or can. - One point to BEER

13. If you shake beer it'll get all agitated but it eventually it settles down. - One point to BEER

14. You always know how much beer is going to cost - One point to BEER

15. Beer doesn't have a mother - One point to BEER

16. Beer never expects to be hugged for half an hour after you've drank it - One point to BEER


That's it! The matter is settled, the clear winner is: BEER

PS: If you are a woman and at this point feel angry, degraded or discriminated, just remember that Beer would experience none of those feelings, let! alone express them. -An extra point for BEER

Show her how you feel

Make sure to show her how you truly feel, cause someday, you may not have the chance to.

If you had one more day on earth how would you spend it? Would you take the opportunity to do anything you wanted to do that you never had the chance to do, or would you spend it with the love of your life? Life is way too over rated to just let it pass you buy. Show the ones closest to you just how you truly feel. Dont leave this world when you have someone that is confused about how you feel about them. Garth Brooks says, If tomorrow never comes, will she know how much i love her. Did i try in every way, to show her every day, that she's my only one. This is how life should be. Tell the one that you love just how you feel about them cause who knows one day you may not have the chance to do just that. Let her know exactly how you feel about her every day. You never know when our good lord will take you away from them, so let her know exactly how you truly feel so in the case that something does happen to you, at least she will know how you truly feel about her.

If you made it this far then you truly care about this subject, or you are extremely bored. I just want to thank everyone that reads this for putting up with yet another one of my blogs on life

Sunday, September 26, 2010

True Feelings

Ok this is going to be my first blog entry here. This is something I had on my mind a few nights ago. I just thought I would share it with y'all. I hope you enjoy it.

You know love has a way of sneaking up on you. When you least expect it you will find the one person you know deep in your heart you truly belong with. When this happens one can't help but want to do anything and everything within their power to see that their love is happy and truly safe. There is no such thing as a perfect love. There will always be aruging, fighting, it is just the way it goes. You can give every fiber in your body trying to prove that you love them, or trying to keep the promises you make. However sometimes you fall short of doing just that. There are times where no matter what you do you feel like you have hurt, or let down, the love you would give your life for to protect. When this happens it feels like someone just ripped a part of you away. When you try everything humanly possible to make sure they are safe, loved, and truly happy it hurts that much more when you let them down. When you see your love cry, or when you know they are in pain and there is nothing you can do to help, that is the lowest feeling you can ever possibly feel. When you know you are the reason that they feel lonely or unloved... there is this void between the two of you. Its like the weird akward silence between two people that know deep down they are ment to be together. It puts doubt in the heart and mind of an individual. Once that seed of doubt is planted, it spreads like a virus. You begin wondering. What if I'm really not the one for them. What if they would be better off with someone else, someone that will make them feel safe, loved, and cared for. Once you get that mental mindset, it leads to other thoughts. What if's. What if I had done this differently. What if I showed them I cared more often. What more could I have done to let them know I truly love them for who they are as a person. It's at that point you realize you have to do something to change all of this. You have to eliminate any seed of doubt between the two of you. You have to show them that no matter what happens, you will always be there for them. You have to let them know how you truly feel about them, and make sure you let them know you would do anything in this world to make sure they are truly happy. True love only comes around once every so often, so by god don't let it slip through your fingers. You have to take ahold of that love, embrace it in your arms, and show that person that you can be the love of their life.